Dear Abby: Married man meets the love of his life

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:39:51 GMT

Dear Abby: Married man meets the love of his life Dear Abby: I am married, but my wife and I are unhappy and have been for years. We grew apart after 17 years. We tried counseling multiple times; it only reinforces the decision to divorce. I have had two affairs. One lasted six months; the other on and off for the past nine months.The latter lady, “Gayle,” and I have an amazing connection in our lifestyles and beliefs. We even have the same birthday. It’s undeniable. We also have chemistry like no other. The problem is, she doesn’t think we will work. We take breaks, which only lead her to want to see me weeks later.I have professed my love for her and, while she hasn’t said it back, everything points to it. When we are intimate, she cries and tells me how much I mean to her. Gayle is strong-willed, independent and lives her life on her terms. When she makes a decision, it’s final. But not with me — she keeps coming back. I have written her numerous letters declaring my love for her. I get ...

Historic Torrey Pines Lodge to celebrate 100 years

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:39:51 GMT

Historic Torrey Pines Lodge to celebrate 100 years SAN DIEGO -- The Torrey Pines State Natural Reserve's landmark adobe lodge, once the gateway to San Diego and now serving as a visitor center and museum, will be celebrating 100 years this Saturday, park officials said.The event will start at 10 a.m. and last until 2 p.m., the Torrey Pines State Natural Reserve stated on its website.From 1923 to 1933, the one-story, pueblo-style adobe building linked the city with cities to the north when North Torrey Pines Road opened to the east, per officials. Snag tickets to the 2023 San Diego County Fair Concert Series "Originally costing $33,000, the lodge was designed by San Diego architect Richard Requa and largely funded by La Jolla philanthropist Ellen Browning Scripps. A $5 million restoration and rehabilitation are planned to start later this year," Torrey Pines State Natural Reserve said.The lodge was used as a restaurant, snack bar and gift shop to a canteen for soldiers training at nearby Camp Callan during World War II, the reserve...

Are robot waiters the future? Some restaurants think so

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:39:51 GMT

Are robot waiters the future? Some restaurants think so MADISON HEIGHTS, Mich. (AP) — You may have already seen them in restaurants: waist-high machines that can greet guests, lead them to their tables, deliver food and drinks and ferry dirty dishes to the kitchen. Some have cat-like faces and even purr when you scratch their heads. But are robot waiters the future? It’s a question the restaurant industry is increasingly trying to answer.Many think robot waiters are the solution to the industry’s labor shortages. Sales of them have been growing rapidly in recent years, with tens of thousands now gliding through dining rooms worldwide.“There’s no doubt in my mind that this is where the world is going,” said Dennis Reynolds, dean of the Hilton College of Global Hospitality Leadership at the University of Houston. The school’s restaurant began using a robot in December, and Reynolds says it has eased the workload for human staff and made service more efficient.But others say robot waiters aren’t much more than a gimmick that have a long way...

Brazil wrestles with solutions after deadly day care attack

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:39:51 GMT

Brazil wrestles with solutions after deadly day care attack BLUMENAU, Brazil (AP) — Parents in this small city in southern Brazil are struggling with how to explain to their children that a man slaughtered four of their friends, while Brazilians across the country are wondering what should be done to stem an apparently systemic rise of violence in schools.Dozens of mourners gathered at the day care center in Blumenau as evening fell Wednesday to pray, to lay flowers for the victims — aged between 5 and 7 — and to cry. At least four other children were wounded in the attack that shook the nation and put pressure on the government to find solutions.Carlos Kroetz and other parents arrived to collect their children’s backpacks left behind at the center during Wednesday morning’s mayhem. “My daughter thinks a thief came in and ran away without harming anyone,” Kroetz told The Associated Press while holding his 6-year-old’s Minnie Mouse bag. “She knew kids who died. We still have to figure out a way to tell her. For now, she is afraid of going to ...

Massachusetts weighs letting judges order mental health care

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:39:51 GMT

Massachusetts weighs letting judges order mental health care BOSTON (AP) — When Ashoke and Vinita Rampuria’s son returned home after taking a year off from college, to complete his course work, he didn’t seem like himself.“He was unable to complete tasks. He was lying on the sofa,” said Ashoke Rampuria, a resident of Acton, Massachusetts. “He took some jobs, but could not hold them.”In 2011, his son was diagnosed with what Rampuria described as a severe mental illness. He soon began cycling in and out of health care facilities, appearing to get his illness under control and then slipping back once released. In 2021, the couple said their son used a new medication and was able to hold a job for three months, but did not continue on the drug.All along, Rampuria said he and his wife lacked a crucial tool – the power of a judge to order their now 36-year-old son, currently at a psychiatric hospital in Lynn, Massachusetts, into mandatory outpatient care. Massachusetts, along with Connecticut and Maryland, are the only states that don’t give courts...

Future of Borges estate in limbo as widow doesn’t leave will

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:39:51 GMT

Future of Borges estate in limbo as widow doesn’t leave will BUENOS AIRES, Argentina (AP) — The rights to the works of the late Jorge Luis Borges, considered Argentina’s most internationally significant author of the 20th century, have fallen into limbo because his widow died last month without a will. The revelation this week surprised the country’s literary circles, because Borges’ wife, Maria Kodama, devoted much of her life to fiercely protecting his legacy. She set up a foundation under the writer’s name, but did not detail plans for what should happen after she died, even though she was battling breast cancer.“If there really is no will, it’s surprising,” said Santiago Llach, a writer who is a specialist on Borges’ work. He said the announcement by Kodama’s longtime lawyer, Fernando Soto, that there was no will “generated buzz on social media and elsewhere.”Borges died in 1986 at age 86 and left Kodama, a translator and writer whom he had married earlier that year, as his only heir. They never had children. She died Ma...

Windy Wednesday; Cooler the Next Few Days—but BIG WARMING AHEAD

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:39:51 GMT

Windy Wednesday; Cooler the Next Few Days—but BIG WARMING AHEAD COOLER WEATHER NEXT FEW DAYS--BUT MAJOR WARMING HEADED THIS WAY BY NEXT WEEK—Cooling Lakeshore Breezes Friday Into Easter Sunday To Give Way To "SW" Flow Capable Of Overcoming Lake CoolingA HUGE PATTERN CHANGE IS TO USHER THE WARMEST TEMPS OF 2023 AND SINCE LAST AUTUMN in a huge portion of the Lower 48. This is the 1 to 5 DAY TEMP DEPARTURE FORECAST off the NWS GFS modelDaytime high temps are predicted to surge to--or above--70-degrees each day next week making it the warmest run of weather here to date in 2023. It's even conceivable a temp could approach 80 in the area Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday next week.The expansion of warm temps over a good swath of the country is reflected in the predicted per cent of the Lower 48 which is to reach or exceed 70-deg. 17% of the country is to do that Thursday down to 11% Friday. But warming begins for the Easter weekend with 21% of the country looking for 70s Saturday and 33% Easter Sunday. By Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday next week, thos...

U.S. Open Cup: It’s “Hailstorm Hysteria” as Northern Colorado comeback to claim 3-1 Centennial State Derby win over Switchbacks

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:39:51 GMT

U.S. Open Cup: It’s “Hailstorm Hysteria” as Northern Colorado comeback to claim 3-1 Centennial State Derby win over Switchbacks Talk about Centennial State Déjá vu in the Lamar Hunt U.S. Open Cup.Northern Colorado Hailstorm came from behind Wednesday night at Weidner Field to pull off a second successive Open Cup shocker against in-state rival Colorado Springs Switchbacks in a 3-1 win.It was the second successive year in which the budding Centennial State Derby has gone to extra time, and both times Hailstorm have found a winner in the additional period to pull off the “cupset”.Switchbacks opened the scoring in the 82nd minute as 17-year-old academy product Marco Rios found midfielder Drew Skundrich, who flicked in the pass to make it 1-0. Six minutes later, Westminster’s Trevor Amann leveled the score shortly after he hit the post, as he headed home a cross from Arthur Rodgers.In the opening half of the extra time, Hailstorm got its go-ahead goal. Substitutes combined as Marky Hernandez had a wonderful step-over to create separation from his man and Donald Benama headed home the ensuing cr...

Effort underway to replace iconic Chinatown red lanterns damaged in storm

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:39:51 GMT

Effort underway to replace iconic Chinatown red lanterns damaged in storm SAN FRANCISCO (KRON) -- A community effort is underway Wednesday night to replace the iconic red lanterns in San Francisco's Chinatown. Many of them were damaged and destroyed during the recent series of storms.But hanging new ones comes with a hefty price tag.Check out these Chinatown lanterns, the storms tore through them, leaving gaping holes. Three blocks of lanterns need to be replaced, costing a total of $90,000.But for business owners in Chinatown, it's worth every penny. LIST: Free Warriors-hosted events at Thrive City this spring "And the wind, it was insane we had to call someone to take down the 800 blocks lanterns," said Jenny Chan who works for the Chinatown Merchants Association. The Chinatown Merchants Association is the organization that independently paid for and installed the red lanterns 10 years ago. After the relentless storms tore them apart, the association is working to raise enough money to replace lanterns on three blocks."It costs $30,000 to replace each...

Hackers leak second batch of data in Oakland ransomware attack

Published Mon, 23 Dec 2024 14:39:51 GMT

Hackers leak second batch of data in Oakland ransomware attack OAKLAND, Calif. (KRON) -- Oakland city officials say more data from a recent ransomware attack have been leaked on the dark web. This is the second time the party claims responsibility."Play" has released data from the attack that was first reported in early February. KRON4 spoke with a tech expert about what this means for people whose personal information may now be out in public. Oakland Police Officers Association says city is ‘stonewalling’ it regarding cyber breach information Oakland's ransomware attack is going beyond city employees. City officials say hackers have released information of some city residents -- along with those city employees -- on the dark web.The city of Oakland said in a statement:"We recently became aware that the same unauthorized third party claiming responsibility for the ransomware incident has posted additional data allegedly taken from our systems during the incident in February to a website not searchable via the traditional internet."The group ...